Just when you thought you’d heard the most annoying thing about Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith’s “relational perfection” — yeah, that’s what they call it now — they go and outdo themselves.
The defiantly out-there couple, who have been married for 23 years and have two children together — son Jaden, 23, and daughter Willow, 20 — have admitted that Pinkett Smith had an affair with R&B singer August Alsina during a “break” from their marriage; that she’s sexually attracted to women; and that they share an unorthodox parenting style (“We don’t do punishment,” Smith once bragged).
Hollywood’s most dubiously enduring duo has been less forthcoming about their now-shuttered, allegedly secret Scientology school. In 2017, when former Scientologist Leah Remini claimed that Pinkett Smith was a “long time” down-low member, the couple denied any affiliations with the controversial religion. “We’ve never been Scientologists, we’ve never been swingers,” Smith said at the time.
Now, however, Smith has revealed that he and his wife are indeed in an open marriage.
“We have given each other trust and freedom, with the belief that everybody has to find their own way. And marriage for us can’t be a prison,” Smith, 53, told GQ this week.
He even admitted that his wife’s “entanglement” with Alsina made it seem like she was the adulterous one, but “that was not, Smith delicately explained to me, in fact the case,” the GQ writer noted.
“Jada never believed in conventional marriage … Jada had family members that had an unconventional relationship. So she grew up in a way that was very different than how I grew up,” Smith said.
And then Smith dropped what could be the most annoying celebrity slang since “conscious uncoupling” was made infamous by Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin: “There were significant endless discussions about, what is relational perfection? What is the perfect way to interact as a couple? And for the large part of our relationship, monogamy was what we chose, not thinking of monogamy as the only relational perfection.”
He added that he’s in the throes of his “f – – k it 50s” phase, teasing his forthcoming 432-page mega-memoir, “Will,” out Nov. 9. (His co-author, Mark Manson, wrote “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.”)
Smith also revealed his self-indulgent, arguably sexist fantasy about having “a harem of girlfriends, including Halle Berry and Misty Copeland, and his work with celebrity intimacy counselor Michaela Boehm, which allowed him to “realize that my thoughts were not sins and even acting on an impure thought didn’t make me a piece of s – – t.”
A Hollywood insider told The Post that the new open-marriage revelations aren’t surprising: “It’s not like we haven’t heard the stories rumbling around. It’s just that we have never heard them confess or admit to anything.”
They added: “That’s how their relationship has been for so long that you just get used to the way it functions. Also, it is a lot of pressure when people are watching you and you feel like you want to maintain this façade of having this power-couple relationship. So, yes, I think that they want to maintain that façade.”
Representatives for the Smiths did not respond to The Post’s request for comment.
Another source close to the family told The Post that the couple was the happiest they’ve ever seen them at Pinkett Smith’s 50th birthday party on Sept. 17.
“It was the best I’ve ever seen her — happiest I’ve ever seen her. All of her closest friends were there. It was old-school,” the source said of the roller-skating party.
“Will was smiling the whole night and happier than anything. Her and Will were blissful. I never saw them smiling so much. It was the happiest I’ve seen them in a long time. It was like, ‘Wow, that’s what 50 is.’ “
The couple’s relationship has long been the subject of speculation.
In 2009, Pinkett Smith said: “I’ve heard all the things — their marriage is not real, he’s gay, she’s gay, they swing . . . I’ll tell you what, it’s too hard to be in a pretend marriage.”
Recently, they became more open about sharing their unconventional views on Pinkett Smith’s popular “Red Table Talk” series, which she hosts alongside her mom, Adrienne Banfield-Norris, and daughter, Willow.
Now in its fourth season, the show is billed as a multigenerational conversation that doesn’t shy away from controversial topics, with Pinkett Smith and her family often injecting their own deeply personal feelings on life, love and marriage.
In the blockbuster 2020 episode, “Jada and Will: Their First One-On-One Conversation,” the couple finally admitted to Pinkett Smith’s affair with Alsina, who joined the family on vacation in Hawaii in 2016, after initially denying the rumors.
Pinkett Smith said she didn’t consider it a “transgression” because the couple had been on a break. “I just wanted to feel good,” she said. “It had been so long since I felt good.”
The series has featured other no-holds-barred family talk.
In an episode titled “Is Polyamory for You?,” which aired earlier this year, Willow said she identified as polyamorous.
“I think the main foundation is the freedom to be able to create a relationship style that works for you and not just stepping into monogamy because that’s what everyone around you says is the right thing to do,” she said.
The Smiths are actually highly dedicated parents, according to another source who was close to the couple years ago when their children were smaller. (Willow first generated “polluted” controversy in 2014 when she was 13 — and posed in bed with a shirtless 20-year-old male friend, actor Moises Arias.)
“They were amazing with their kids. Their kids always came first,” the source said.
Both Willow and Jaden attended the Smiths’ short-lived school, widely believed to be a center of Scientology, called the New Village Leadership Academy, which opened in 2008 before quietly shuttering five years later.
“It wasn’t a rigorous program,” a former guest lecturer at the school told the Daily Beast. “In the name of ‘creativity,’ they were just letting the kids do whatever they want.”
Around the time it closed, Jaden, who is gender fluid and a Louis Vuitton womenswear model, made waves when he tweeted: “School Is The Tool To Brainwash The Youth.”
Despite ample criticism, Jada is proud of her unique parenting style. “I’m not a conventional parent, which I take a lot pride in,” she said in 2014. “I don’t just sit with Willow and go, ‘Hey, this is what Mommy thinks.’”
Smith and Pinkett Smith met on the set of “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air” in 1994, when Jada auditioned to play Smith’s girlfriend but was passed over for the role due to her diminutive stature (she’s 5-feet tall and he’s 6-foot-2).
At the time, Smith was married to businesswoman, actress and fashion designer Sheree Zampino, now 53. The two married in 1992, and that same year they had a son, 28-year-old actor Trey Smith, before splitting in 1995.
“I knew [Jada] was the woman I was supposed to be with,” Smith…